My Holiday, My Way — Free LGBTQIA+ Workbook

Your people matter. Your traditions are valid.

Your holiday can look different. My Holiday, My Way is a free four-page workbook for LGBTQIA+ people exploring chosen family, meaningful traditions, and a season that makes room for who they are.

There is no single right way to celebrate. Use these gentle prompts at your own pace, keep your answers private if you wish, and choose what feels right for your needs and well-being.

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Make space for a holiday that feels more like you

  • Reflect on how you want the season to feel and who feels like family to you.
  • Explore which traditions to keep, change, or let go.
  • Find simple ideas for new traditions and welcoming gatherings.
  • Plan two traditions with comfort, connection, and flexibility in mind.
  • Create a self-care menu and a personal holiday intention.

Different people. Different traditions. Same right to belong.

This workbook is for education and self-reflection. Adapt the activities to your needs and prioritize your safety and well-being. You do not have to share your answers with anyone.